I have wondered that myself. I know I could sure use physical activity a couple times a week and be happy. I know from experience with H that what we have is not up to my cravings. Actually I could take or leave what H offers right now. Its very boring, very predictable and not exciting at all. I think I have settled into keeping myself busy and accepting whatever he offers and leaving it at that for the time being.
I don't know if I could keep up with a really HD man who wanted it everyday. I think that might exhaust me to a point. So here we have the HD/LD thing again. I consider myself HD because H only wants sex maybe once a month. But.......... if my feelings were different I think I might have alot more desire. KWIM? I could however be happy with twice a week. To some that would be LD. So who knows
