YOu may have too big expectation from your H. If you prefer a bigger gift, I suggest that you tell him. Don't leave it to him to guess. I know I am not a mind reader. It is very difficult to be a mind reader.
I would feel very happy in your situation, if I could take my W out in our anniversary. But it is over for me now. I am moving on with my life. You need to do the same thing to your H too if you want him to be more loving to you. Loving R is two ways. One way street does not work.
