Quote: I read an interview with Shirley Glass in which she said that some people who have difficult childhoods marry stable, rooted partners but then go back later in life and find a more volatile person to resolve the issues of feeling unloved by such people (like their parents).
This is really interesting. (BTW, was this in the NYTimes magazine a month ago?) Not to hijack, but I wonder what it says about people who had difficult childhoods but stable, rooted parents, i.e., people who were NOT volatile but simply unloving in other ways.
I'd like to take this over to my thread.
Anyway, Pam, it sounds like OW is very quickly crashing and burning. How outrageous that she stalked you in Hong Kong, using your H's Expedia pw! But I think you and others are right to think that staying away, and letting her spectacular light show happen as she shoots across the sky (OK, I'm absolutely mangling a shooting star metaphor here ) is the best tack.
I laughed out loud at the image of the photograph you found - sounds like her behavior is every bit as ridiculous, and your H must see it. If he is calling her a Fatal A then he must be seeing it more clearly than ever.
She is crashing and burning (or burning, then crashing) - let her!