Quote: You are also right about people not understanding, my very own brother doesn't get why I haven't given up on H. If H and I are able to resolve all this and get back together I think it could be a real possibility that my relationship with my brother would be forever altered for the worse.
Ditto with my sister. Although on the very verge of walking out on her husband years ago, she seems to think I should just cut H right out of the picture forever. She also married a man who was 'already three months separated" (with three kids) and of course it was all the ex wife's fault... I now see more and more how that is obviously what a separated spouse is going to say to any OP who turns up on the scene and provides a shoulder to cry on.
Livnlearn
"The unexamined life is not worth living" - Socrates
