Quote: H calls her the "fatal attraction" as she is always using these whacked out manipulative juvenile tactics. After she found out that H and I were together she sent him an e-mail threatening suicide, what textbook OW behavior.
She is a desperate woman, that is for sure.
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Quote: He goes back to Brazil in less than a week, but I think that I will try a "hands off" approach, rather than trying to micromanage his whereabouts.
Pam, what people (mostly Ellie!) made me see in my situation, is that the less I "interfered" with H and OW 2, the less pressure he felt from me, the more he will feel from the OW. From my point of view, I had said nothing specifically about OW ever, merely protected our D's interests, yet when things got shaky, H ranted at me that I had driven them apart...
The best thing you can do is keep your hands right off the situation - you don't even have the problem of your sons being inolved in any direct way with OW, so let their A come to it's own conclusion without any help from you. All you need do is be the completely irresistible alternative to OW!
Livnlearn
"The unexamined life is not worth living" - Socrates
