Pam, I am glad to catch up on your sitch and to see that your H has realized what a gem you are. I don't want to bring you down but when you mentioned he needed your signature on documents, the warning lights flashed for me. My H also made moves toward a reconnect then asked me to co-sign a large home equity line to help him start his new business. That was June. By September the credit line was maxed out and the payment was past due. Yikes! My name is on the loan and if H defaults, we might be forced to sell the house.
This may or may not be applicable to your sitch, but I thought I should share. Keep taking care of yourself and your long-term interests. Don't get caught like I did.
