Hi Pam...I've been following your sitch, but I'm ashamed to say havent found time to check in. I'm so happy for you, it sure sounds as though your H has come to his senses at long last.
I have to 2nd what Slowly said about them being back but us not feeling confident.......this is a VERY hard place to be in from my experience.
Also what PS Luke said about it seeming to be the same cycle/process that shows up around here so much.......
You are doing great....I'm so proud of you. Cant say I have much input to add...I think you are right on track with the way you're handling things.