Hi Pam - Welcome to the 'other side' - they are back, but we are not confident. This is the new limbo, where continuing to db will be just as important. H sounds like he has woken up.
Quote: He has not actually even said that they did break up or that their R is over. He just seems to be looking more at the future and what that holds
Yup, very normal. He wants to run away from dealing with just how 'silly' he has been. Go with the flow. It will take a lot to just 'suck up' - but in the long term, it'll be worth it.
About China - he seems to be asking for you to go along, for your support. And the thing about whether he is back for business or you, well, he may be finding it easier to focus on business, it requires less soul searching. I too made the mistake of dwelling on exactly why he was back - and you know, over time, with enough opportunity to 'save face', the truth will be out. Their pride too takes a bashing, and any rationale that may make them look better would be preferable.
Trust the process, Pam. Keep on the good work. Lots of love and hugs, Slowly
