Pam, It sounds like your H has done alot of thinking while he was away.
Please take things slowly tho'. You both have alot of issues that you will have to deal with in time. Many of the WAS seem to want to act like nothing ever happened. That is not always the easiest thing to do for us. I am one that needs to deal with things to put them in the past. But it has to be done at the proper time. When you figure out when that is, let me know.
Good luck with the trip to China. Perhaps it will give you the time you need to get your 'new' R on the right track.
