Hey, Pam. Guess I'm one of those posters who jumped off the rollercoaster, huh? Actually, I have not closed the door to a R sometime in the future -- I am just saying I won't have an R with him while OW is in the picture, and if he is not getting treatment for his sex compulsion. Maybe it's a blurry boundary, but that's what I'm doing.
It does stink when you act as if they are the same guy you once knew and they specifically show you how wrong that assumption is... they are changed, they don't seem to care, they are in their own fantasy.
Slowly's advice about having plans on a Friday and/or Saturday night is right on. I went to dinner with a gal pal on Friday night, then golf on Saturday and dinner/movie with another friend that night. Kept me busy and not focused on what my kids were doing, and with whom.
If I lived closer to you, we could have a glass of wine some Saturday night!
The sermon in church today was about sharing your faith with others and it made me think of you. Thanks for your post on my thread the other day, and please know I understand what it took to write it, let alone post it!
You are a great person, Pam, and I hope your H wakes up to that fact sooner than later.
Actually, I have not closed the door to a R sometime in the future -- I am just saying I won't have an R with him while OW is in the picture, and if he is not getting treatment for his sex compulsion. Maybe it's a blurry boundary, but that's what I'm doing.
