I do appreciate your chiming in, and as I read back my own post I realize that it does sound a little "off."
My prayers for H to be miserable with OW are NOT the only thing that I pray for regarding H, but rather just one of many things that I pray.
When I first started seeing my C she and I together developed a list of specific things to pray for regarding this situation.
I also have a friend that I pray with every morning and many other friends from various places who are praying about this together with me.
One promise that I do have that is straight from the Bible is that the Holy Spirit intercedes for us, which says to me that no matter what I pray it all gets translated correctly.