Hey Deb & Slowly,

I just returned from the library, I finally checked out Mars/Venus, I am probably the only person on the planet that hasn't read it.

I am hoping to get a few new ideas on ways to relate to H that are fresh/different.

I am already on to about the 5th chapter or so. I am just feeling the need to be H's calm port in the storm, but I also want to create a wee bit of mystery and maybe something that causes H to just go "Oh my God, what was I thinking, Pam was right, OW is not 1/2 the woman that she is."

I am ASSuming that since H doesn't return until Sunday, he wont have the boys until next weekend for overnight. But if he does what I predict then he will show up here on his way home from the airport just about the time we get back from church. Of course I will be looking very nice, high heels, makeup, new outfit, nice smile, warm greeting etc.

I am also planning on just being warm and kind, no demands, no pressure, no R talk.

Funny how the lingo just becomes 2nd nature, sometimes when I am talking to my offline friends I want to call the Brazilian w**** "OW." I don't even like calling her by her name, it just sticks in my throat.

I once saw someone here on the bb by that name and I couldn't even hardly stand to read her thread, just seeing the name in print made me want to vomit.

I am really praying that H continues to be miserable with OW. One of these days I know it will come to an end. It has to, I can just feel it.

Pam