The scenario that I am thinking is most likely is that things have further deteriorated between H and OW in their R. That their so-called honeymoon period is probably over and he is seeing her more for her true colors.
Will he have broken up with her? I doubt it. He has so many demands and woes that are business related right now that I seriously doubt if he will have the energy or wherewithall for another messy OW break up before he leaves Brazil. So I am guessing that he will leave there with her in limbo, much like I am, only I am calm, serene, peaceful, and full of grace.
OW will be angry, emotional, perhaps clingy or demanding.
I also know that H rented a house for her in Brazil, and H makes the payments because she cannot afford to on her meager income. I also believe that she is lying to H telling him that the lease cannot be broken or she will be arrested or some such crap.
H doesn't have the $ to pay off the entire term of the lease and because of the language diff he believes OW when she says the lease cannot be broken.
That one entanglement and how to conquer it will be a huge sticky point for H.
I am really trying hard to be realistic. Just because H said that things are terrible between him and OW and then called me 2x in one day isn't really a reason to break out the bubbly just yet.
So who am I when H returns? The antithesis of OW? The Pam he fell in love with? The Pam he said that he was looking for when we went to C together? Some combo of all?
