GEL

My H loved Steel Magnolias, and Beaches. The last few times we have rented movies at the local rent place, he always picks out sci-fi related flicks and I pick out what looks good. Well, he has complained that the ones he has picked out sucked, lol, while the ones I picked out he sat and watched and even enjoyed. Then again he doesn't really watch much sports either.

You know, now that I think about it he is very much a "yes" kinda guy. Whenever we go out to eat he always has whatever I have, he was never into sports, I like to watch certain things like figure skating. During the olympics I like stuff like swimming..... over the years he has come to watch and be interested in those things. Its like he chooses whatever I like. When we go out to dinner or something I ask him where shall we go, its always my decision. Same with meals and stuff at home, its always my decision. Its like he cannot make a decision on his own. After he first retired from the fire dept, he would call me alot during the day, finally after several months of this, I said to him, Make a decision on these small things. He was driving me wacko. Hmmmmmmmmmmm think I'm on to something here but not quite sure what Any opinions on this behavor?

Annette