Ok...hold the phone! She says men are in control of the media? Has she ever read the credits? Ever watched "Sex in the City"?! That show is written by a woman from...believe it or not, Oklahoma (I know, I went to school with her :-)
Women are in EVERY part of the media today, writers, producers, directors, marketing campagne managers, I could go on and on but I won't bore you.
If she truly believes men are in control of the media then she would be the one who is unenlightened....does she not know, or has she forgotten that it is a woman who is now in charge of Playboy magazine?