I think I've met your wife LOL. And I would have to respond to the "unenlightened" comment with saying that she's being close-minded if she cannot listen to other (your) opinions...afterall, everyone is entitled to one.
One great thing I can say about my LDH is that we can agree to disagree...we don't always have to see things eye-to-eye. In fact we don't see eye-to-eye on many controversial subjects....this is something he's having to get used to. In the past he had someone (like your wife) telling him he was "unenlightened".