I say this to you because I want to reinforce it to myself. Don't talk about OW or R or ask for any clarification. 1. It sounds needy and desparate. 2. You talk with your girlfriends about relationship problems and boyfriends. 3. Pretend you are single for life and that you have no right in asking your H about past relationships and if you were in fact single you wouldn't worry because you got the man on your own good merits, which has nothing whatsoever to do with his past.
