Well, we have been working at getting our marriage back on track for over 2 months now. Things seem to be going so much better...H is communicating with me, spending time with me, doing so much around the house and other stuff to show me he loves me.
But, there are some things that are frustrating me...there are 3 things that my H wont do or initiate. Hugging me, kissing me and telling me he loves me. I have done lots of thinking about it and I wonder if it because those are the things that he was doing with OW...and now, he is afraid to show them to me because he is confused about how to show me he loves me. Does that make sense?
Just today before he was leaving for the night, he did reach out to give me huh (WOW) and then I went to kiss him on the lips and he turned his face... its so heartbreaking...
After and during ML, he does kiss me...but any other time I try, its on the cheek...I just dont get it...
Also, most of the time when I try to hug him, I get like half a hug....he will wrap his arms around me, but barely touch me and never puts his hand on me..its so weird!!
The ILY, I have not said to his face yet since we have been back together, but I did email him and told him ILY ...I am afraid to push it..plus not sure if he would feel bad not saying it back yet.
When he was texting OW, it was always ILY, ILY, ILY..now I get nothing and I am the person he is planning on spending the rest of his life with??
So, what do I do...just give it some time?? Should I talk to him about it? I just dont know...but it really hurts when I go to kiss him and he turns his cheek...