Quote: But I have been already doing all this and Im just not sure I have been doing the right things...
which is why I suggested experimenting. If you try to figure out h's love languages on your own..listing (as you planned to anyway) what you've done and what reactions you've gotten then you can monitor and possibly discover his ll's on your own.
Quote: that is why I online a couple weeks ago, but it didnt work and he got frustrated, so i just said forget it.
I don't understand this statement? could you clarify?
Quote: I was also wondering if anyone could tell me if I should talk to him about how his actions lately have really been hurting me?
Sure, why not practice what you will say here firts though.
Quote: Shouldnt he know that??
maybe he should and maybe he shouldn't..all depends on communication...which of course is connected to your next statement...
Quote: For six months now I have set no boundaries and I think he just takes advantage of that now. He just does whatever he wants,
perhaps it's time to set some boundaries (as long as they are reasonable and valid). But you also must realize that you cannot fully blame another for crossing lines that you didn't establish in the first place.
Quote: knowing full well I am here to stay?
how can he know full well you are there to stay when you yourself don't know if you are there to stay?
Please don't think I'm beating you up now...I'm just trying to point out some things you may have over looked.
