wait before I say what I logged on to say I feel compelled to say we shouldn't expect 2much...it is often our expectations that leave us dissapointed and not the actions of others that do.
having said that....
I've often made the same statement about my h "he never tells me anything"...
what I have realized is that h doesn't need to talk to me or tell me anything when I'm always doing the talking. If I sit back (and do so without being in an angry huff) he eventually starts chatting away.
