I thought my sitch fits more here now....hope this is a good place to post!!
Well, things seem to be going great. Last night my H initiated sex...first time in over 8 months!!! The past 2 weeks, he has slept in our bed every night!! Its as though nothing ever happened, except I am a different person and also a different person in the marriage. We have not talked about anything since the beginning of September...is that ok? Im not even sure what to say...he doesnt seem to be thinking about OW or anything anymore and seems pretty committed to us. I have asked for some of my needs, but just small ones...but am feeding his needs now....trying to show him how I have changed and just how wonderful our marriage can be if we both work at it.
So, do I bring up anything? What can I talk about and what should I avoid? Do I just let things go as they are since things seem to be much better? I'm just not sure if I am doing all the right things or if there are things I should be doing? Does anyone have any advice?
The past 2 weeks, he has slept in our bed every night!! Its as though nothing ever happened, except I am a different person and also a different person in the marriage. We have not talked about anything since the beginning of September...is that ok?
