It sounds like you are doing well. The 'comfort zone' will move eventually to your new life with boundaries.
I don't recall if you had made a list, but it is a good idea to make a list of non-acceptable behaviors from hubby. Keep it short and memorize it. Things are hard to recall in a heated moment.
Please keep posting progress. I have had little time to post lately, but I make time to read all the posts.
All the best, -NOPkins-
I will ferret out an affair at any opportunity.
-An affair is the embodiment of entitlement, fueled by resentment and lack of respect. -An infidel will remain unreachable so long as their sense of entitlement exceeds their ability to reason.