The question is, how accommodating should I be? W and I work 45 miles apart, so a marriage C would need to be somewhere in the middle if we were to have an appointment during the work day. Weekends and late night appointments wouldn't work because of the kids. I suppose I could find one within 5 minutes of my W's workplace and just go there first thing in the morning (9am probably) and then show up to work by 11AM. Hmmm.
As far as being clear, I think I have. Marriage counseling would obviously be for us, not just for me or her. The problem is, we had a crappy EAP (employee assistance program) counselor in April 2003 that neither of us liked, and the bad experience (even though it was only 3 appointments) was enough to make us hesitant. I don't want another crappy counselor who will focus on MY problems or HER problems separately from the M. Guess I'll just have to throw a dart at random and pick one.
