It's also possible that over time this is merely your C's honest opinion. It doesn't sound like you are willing to give up on your M & your W yet I forget, does your W attending C at all? If not perhaps (if she's willing) it is time to request her to attend marriage counseling with you.
I forget, does your W attending C at all? If not perhaps (if she's willing) it is time to request her to attend marriage counseling with you. 