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One of the first questions you should have for the C is, "are you pro-marriage?" It might sound silly, but many C's have a skewed view of troubled M and will "convince you" that leaving the M is the best solution. I should know... my personal C is one of these. I hope that the one you found is pro-marriage.





Chris,

I do understand that you have to be carefull when choosing a C -if you don't mind my asking, how is your C's view of your M 'skewed'? And how does she try to convince you that D is the best answer?

Thanks.