Quote: So. I've been just doing some soul-searching. I need time to think about my part in this, and to keep myself strong so I don't 'take his bait'. I now have a number for a C, and I'll call on Mon., at least go once (She's an hr. away)
One of the first questions you should have for the C is, "are you pro-marriage?" It might sound silly, but many C's have a skewed view of troubled M and will "convince you" that leaving the M is the best solution. I should know... my personal C is one of these. I hope that the one you found is pro-marriage.
Quote: I haven't been here much, 'cause I really feel I need to work things out alone right now. I'll stop in from time to time.
Yes, work things out alone... sounds like a good plan. You have been here on DB to start the process, and now you need to do your own thing. I'm thinking of doing the same thing. good luck!
