Ok, perhaps the rock has moved just a little. H came up and asked me (not very nicely...) to put the car in the garage. I asked if he would help - since the door doesn't work and everytime I try to open it he complains I do it wrong.
H then complained that I never wanted to listen when he tells me how to do things. I said that I would try to listen better, but admitted it does get me when he complains about the things I do every day, like cook, clean, etc.
The convo went on, and I'm so tired right now I don't exactly remember how, but at one point I apologized for something as H went into the other room. He came out and said something else, then asked me what I said. I (honestly) didn't remember. He said 'Oh, so you must not have meant it'.
M'It's very difficult to have a convo with you if you put down everything I say'. H'Yeah, and GUESS why I do that?' M'I can't guess, can you tell me?'
Surprise surprise, I didn't get an answer, so that's about par for the course, but H also mumbled something that 'Normal people would have started working on this three years ago'. M'Well, can't we work on it now?' we bantered on this back and forth...
I think I should learn to stop talking and listen. Not to mention try to figure out what happened 3 yrs ago.
