Well, FF, I am a bit shocked, and that is hard to do.

Let me ask another question. In your day to day dealings with your husband, if you were to imagine a stranger in your husbands place, saying the things that your husband says to you, verbatim, what would your reaction be?

-NOPkins-

I will ferret out an affair at any opportunity.

-An affair is the embodiment of entitlement, fueled by resentment and lack of respect.
-An infidel will remain unreachable so long as their sense of entitlement exceeds their ability to reason.