Quote: ---------- I have nothing against mbing or even porn, except that you're using it to avoid me. ----------
Precisely right.
Looking back at your first posts, you need to find out what it is that he has been holding against you all this time.
I am wondering if his grudge and his passive aggressive 'punishment' (cutting you off) have gone on so long that he has forgotten what started the whole deal. This is the same guy that you described as doing it daily with you the first couple of years.
I think you have taken an excellent step. I think that the next one should be to find out whatever it was that offended him so badly, that he refused to tell you what it is. It is time for that piece of childish behavior to be gone.
If he has a reason for cutting you off, then you have a right to know what it is. If he has no reason, then he has no excuse for the abuse he has heaped on you. I think the idea that he is low drive can be summarily dismissed now.
Please keep us posted. -NOPkins-
I will ferret out an affair at any opportunity.
-An affair is the embodiment of entitlement, fueled by resentment and lack of respect. -An infidel will remain unreachable so long as their sense of entitlement exceeds their ability to reason.
