Porn and MB are things he does by himself to himself. It is much easier, apparently, to arouse himself than to rely on a mutual encounter with you. When he is using porn, he doesn't have to rely on pleasing anyone else. It's just too easy, and is apiece with his social anxiety as well.
By reading all of you people's reactions to Organ Player's sexual style (that's my nickname for him - if you like it you can keep it ), I am surprised that there is so little understanding. I bet if you pol the women who's men experience ED, these men have a much easier time getting aroused and having O's by themselves with porn than with their partners. This isn't mean, it's not even really selfish, although it looks that way. It's just a sexual style without fear and performance anxiety, which is the #1 killer of male arousal, IMHO.
SM
"If we will be quiet and ready enough, we shall find compensation in every disappointment." Henry David Thoreau
), I am surprised that there is so little understanding. I bet if you pol the women who's men experience ED, these men have a much easier time getting aroused and having O's by themselves with porn than with their partners. This isn't mean, it's not even really selfish, although it looks that way. It's just a sexual style without fear and performance anxiety, which is the #1 killer of male arousal, IMHO.