I can understand that you don't want too many fireworks at a time.
However, if MrsNOP had been MB all the time INSTEAD of making love to me, I think I would have been offended to the point of walking out. If she had been MB and making love to me, then that sounds like fun. Do you see the difference?
Contrary to what others have advised, I would personally (just me talking here, not giving advice) have a flying sh!t fit.
Regardless of how you confront your husband, I think he is going to pop back at you with anger - because he knows it will scare you off.
Make boundaries, demand respect.
All the best, -NOPkins-
I will ferret out an affair at any opportunity.
-An affair is the embodiment of entitlement, fueled by resentment and lack of respect. -An infidel will remain unreachable so long as their sense of entitlement exceeds their ability to reason.
