I misread your post, I guess... thought H had another job that he disliked while waiting for a pharmacy of his own. Sorry.
As far as the porn "thing" goes... I wouldn't confront him. He might get very defensive, more than he already is. Instead... do you have a TV and DVD or videotape player in the bedroom? how about a DVD or videotape player on the TV near the couch? If so, maybe you can buy or rent a few porn flicks over the weekend and watch them. Either you watch them first before the two of you are together (to know what to expect) or watch them together for the first time. What would his reaction be? This might be a good first step to getting H in the mood for LM.
