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Also, were you able to tell when you looked on his computer how often he looks at porn? Is he using up all his mojo on the porn or is he LD with the porn too?




Only checked the past couple of days, but he certainly doesn't seem too LD in that regard . I did find a bunch a month or so ago as well, so it's probably been all along...found books in the closet too.

HP, I like your idea of mentioning myself as well. Wb and Barney, thanks for a guy's perspective. No, I certainly don't want to make it confrontational...I'm pretty sure that would cause more problems than solve. But it might be a way to open up the whole sex topic again, help him to see that we've both got a part to play in this. I hope by now he's starting to realize I want to work on our R...