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Maybe it is time to tell him that he is welcome to have sex with you instead of masturbating. Maybe you should tell him exactly that, in the afore couched terms, factual and straightforward.





Ok, I guess I'm a real child in terms of this, but I'm going to ask you all for advice. First, whether I should confront him about the porn and/or mbing, and second how...

I remember Jenny saying she confronted H early on and wished she hadn't.

But I also wonder about telling him I'm willing to ML...I have said this, fairly straight out, several times in the past month, to be turned down - in a friendly way, to give H credit, but turned down just the same.

Granted, H is being friendly, things back to where they were before my Dad's visit.

Guess I've just got real cold feet and need some support.