Something about your husband's strangeness is nagging me. We all do and say somewhat strange things, but the sabotage of potential togetherness (fun) as a family, and the over the top reactions don't quite fit.
So. If you get a chance, check the browser history on his computer and see what he is having a look at. Do you two share the same machine? Has he shown any interest in gay porn? Does he chat online?
Also, do you know why he resents you so much?
Odd questions, I know.
The goal is to find the point that the two of you became divided on, or the major influence on one or both of you that is the primary source of the problem.
I know there is a lack of respect in your relationship, but I think that is also a symptom in your case, not the source.
If you can stand it, let's keep digging. If I am causing to much pain, just tell me or ignore me. You won't hurt my feelings.
All the best, -NOPkins-
I will ferret out an affair at any opportunity.
-An affair is the embodiment of entitlement, fueled by resentment and lack of respect. -An infidel will remain unreachable so long as their sense of entitlement exceeds their ability to reason.
