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What does your husband do at the computer since he spends so much time on it?



He subscribes to a couple of lists, a couple are on organ, not sure about the rest, surfs, mainly cd stores and now he's been downloading music, news, I know he does download porn.
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What does he do when you and the kids are out and he has 'things' to do?




Sleep, read, surf, or he's got some project going. He is the treasurer of an organ society, is on the board of an organ festival and the local orchestra's support league, he edits program books for a couple of music festivals throughout the year, writes cd texts for one for a friend of ours who's got a hot recording schedule right now, I could go on and on.

I suspect you're hinting that he may be having an on-line affair, and while of course that is possible, I find it rather unlikely. The only affair I think he has is with his computer, and organ. I think one of the things I fell in love with in him was his interest and knowledge in a lot of areas, I thought he was in love with life. Now I suspect it's his way of avoiding it.

As I sit here now (should be in bed, sleeping ) he's on his computer in the other room, checking out recordings, and he is having a conversation with me, sharing things he's finding.

I've got a bunch of ideas running through my head right now about me, but I think I'll wait to share them after I've gotten some sleep.