Wow, Thanks to all of you. It's great to know I have so many friends out there!! Hmm...wonder if there's a way I can set up a virtual sauna, great way to relax, hot steam, lots of beer...alot of Finnish businesses won't sign a deal 'till they've shared a sauna will all involved parties.
Anyway...brought dad to the airport yesterday. H was home when we got back, and we all ate dinner together. H was quiet, and I was really too exhausted to bring anything up, so I tried to be pleasant, but I was pretty quiet myself. H went off to do his own stuff, later we watched TV together, then went to bed. I didn't avoid him, but didn't say anything either.
H had asked in passing yesterday if we could do without both cars for the weekend. I said probably, and asked why. He just brushed me off. This morning he asked me to sign a paper - to get out of our tire storage deal with the place the tires are right now. I asked why he wanted out, he wouldn't tell me (this car is in my name). H said that there were lots of things he wanted to discuss with me, but I was in such a bad mood that he couldn't talk to me.(?)
So I told him I wouldn't sign until I knew. H went on for several minutes that he was running late and couldn't tell me right now (!) I pointed out that he seemed to have time to read his paper and eat his breakfast...nothing. So I tore up the paper and told him to ask me again when he's told me why.
I'm sure he'll be in a foul mood - I've messed up some plan of his, probably something very logical and good, but I do think I deserve to be told!
As I look back, I don't think I've done much in my M that I need to appologize for. Meaning...the anger I've mentioned before has been as a result of H's 'games', or whatever. I'm just speculating, which I know is dangerous, and I agree with Jenny that H probably doesn't even really know the source of his resentment. But H has said at times that he is afraid of me, and I saw this this morning. He was afraid to tell me what he was doing, for whatever reason. He should know that all I want is to be informed, and that usually-almost always- I agree with his plans, because in all honesty, they are usually very practical and good (and yes, I have told him many times I appreciate this trait of his). I just want to be considered an equal partner, and I want him to trust me.
I'll write more later, gotta go get D8 from school...
