FF:
Your H is making me MAD! What a total and complete creep he is being. I really hope Corri chimes in because he is totally invading your boundaries, and you need to reassert them. If he says something bad to you, you need to tell him that you won't be spoken to that way, and that if he continues, you will _____ (fill in the blank).

I think you're right about cooling it on the sex stuff...you guys need to work on the relationship, especially the respect issue, right now.

I know just how your dad feels. I was reading the post and thinking, how come Dad doesn't just bring her HOME?! I know this is pretty obvious, but he is probably hurting inside as he thinks about the treatment his little girl is getting from that jerk. If he were George Bush, we'd be invading Finland, FF.

{{{{FF}}}} Start practicing that flute, girl. You're one of the few on this board who need to seriously consider an exit strategy.

I'm not saying to cut and run right now. I'm kind of following up what is being said on another thread around here, which is, only threaten what you think you can realistically follow through. A plan is what you need.

Hairdog