That was great, FF! "Is it so strange that a W wants to ML to her husband?" I know that took some MAJOR courage to say that, and, as SuprDave said, what a "crafty" way to put it!
I'm currently giving W the month of October "off," even though our anniversary is Saturday. I guess it's part of my anniversary present to her. But I will remember your method, and hopefully, in November, I'll use it.