Quote: That brutal travel schedule isn't helping anybody. It would be tough on the most solid M. Even if he can't do anything about it, he might like to know that you want him around more often.
I a weird way I think his travel schedule has actually been helpful in resolving our difficulties in that it has had the effect of concentrating our efforts. A couple weeks ago my H told me "I'm sure you experience a certain guilty pleasure in my absence." and he was right. His behavior made him "more trouble than he was worth" in some ways. Now I was able to tell him that I really do wish he would get a new job when his contract is up because I'm looking forward to being around him more now that he's committed to being civil and loving.
"Tell me, what is it you plan to do with your one wild and precious life?" - Mary Oliver
