JustJenny wrote: --------------- Apparently, my H does too. He just called to tell me he's going to do whatever he has to do to win my heart. He said I should point out any inappropriate behavior to him right when it happens because he is going to do his best to address all of it. I told him that I was very happy to hear that and I thought with time I could get to a place where I would be less fearful for our future and therefore more committed to our relationship.
As far as the sex goes, I think I'll trust him to take charge of that for a while too. I probably need to learn how to let myself be pursued as much as my H needs to learn how to pursue. JustJenny is a lot mellower than Mojo could manage. ---------------
This is all good. I am very happy for you.
Don't be surprised when his unruly 'inner child' shows up, just deal with it the best you can and let time do some work on your husband.
I was listening to a Gillian Welch song last night and it had me - yep, Mr. tough guy- in tears. The title is "Time (The Revelator)". The words to the song are a bit cryptic, but the title says it all.
I also have to confess that when you told me that I had made you cry, I cried too. I really do want you two to make it.
All the best, -NOPkins-
I will ferret out an affair at any opportunity.
-An affair is the embodiment of entitlement, fueled by resentment and lack of respect. -An infidel will remain unreachable so long as their sense of entitlement exceeds their ability to reason.
