Quote: Mr.Who-am-I included in his first point: He has never been the pursuer but the one pursued. ---------------
Perhaps no sex right now would help him "find himself".
Hey Barn,
I'm going to give you points for this one. I'm pretty sure that wasn't my motivation but I think it would be a good point to bring up with my H. He said his drive was low because he wasn't the pursuer, so maybe part of what he needs to do to 'differentiate" is learn how to pursue. Sexually and in general.
Thanx!
"Tell me, what is it you plan to do with your one wild and precious life?" - Mary Oliver
