I do still believe he is rather LD. Clearly he is very invested in not seeing himself as LD. In fact, based on other things he said, I think it is possible that he might leave me so that he doesn't have to see himself as LD. There is absolutely nothing I can do about this.

He did give some evidence to support the fact that he's not as LD as I had come to believe. He clarified the "boobies" remark. He said he wasn't particularly interest in seeing her boobies, not boobies in general. He also indicated that his porn habit ate up a lot of his drive.

"Tell me, what is it you plan to do with your one wild and precious life?" - Mary Oliver