Quote: 12) He feels like we do need to "separate" on some level because it will help him to lose his needy emotional dependence on me (differentiate).
I think there is danger here. Separation is not differentiation. Differentiation would be holding onto himself in your presence. Separation is just a different form of fusion from emotional entanglement. It is still a reaction to the stand that you have taken. He needs to strap on the Kevlar jock strap and take what you've got to dish out. That would be differentiation.
Quote: So, no more Mojo plans or theories are being generated. Maybe it's time to change my name to JustJenny.
Oh, no! Say it ain't so! You lost your MoJo .
Actually, JustJenny is quite nice. You think of yourself as vulnerable, but you've been putting up a pretty tough exterior lately. I have a feeling that JustJenny is more you than *Mojo.
Regards,
SM
"If we will be quiet and ready enough, we shall find compensation in every disappointment." Henry David Thoreau
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