Forgive me for dropping out of lurker mode here ... and for stating something so obvious ...
But all these items that you listed - that your H revealed - is a GIGANTIC step for him! And for you as well!
Maybe you can't intervene in the way that you would like, Madame General - but you can lay out guideposts for him to see. Maybe your H will seek out a C because he does have a lot on his psychic agenda now.
As for you - what are you going to do in the meantime? How are you going to take care of yourself?
Me 52, STBEX 52 D 17, S 12 M 20 years Em Sep since 2002, Phys Sep Sept 2009