Lillie wrote:
----------------
Frankly, NOP, your statement is a gratuitous insult to your former lovers, even if all you had was "just sex." Yikes! Why would you say such a thing?
----------------

It isn't an insult. I say it because the sheer bulk of it (just sex) makes the statement true in my case. How do you otherwise define a gelatinous mess of never ending faceless parts? Twelve I might could remember. After the count gets into the hundreds, what's the point?

My questions are rhetorical, don't bother answering.

I am glad for you that you have 'made love' with more than one person. I am glad for me and my wife that regardless of my history, I remained something of an emotional virgin for my marriage.

-NOPkins-

I will ferret out an affair at any opportunity.

-An affair is the embodiment of entitlement, fueled by resentment and lack of respect.
-An infidel will remain unreachable so long as their sense of entitlement exceeds their ability to reason.