Quote: Correct me if I am wrong, but I think you have been working on the assumption (or the hope) that there is a REASON for your H's low libido, and that once that was unravelled...lo and behold, he would be HD. I think you have made SOME progress in that direction, but clearly not enough.
BINGO.
I don't want a LDH! I don't want a LDH! I don't want a LDH! So I was looking for a magic cure. Actually I wasn't looking for a magic cure, I was willing to work my *ss off and do just about anything in order to make him HD.
"Tell me, what is it you plan to do with your one wild and precious life?" - Mary Oliver
