I had the same reaction as Honeypot when I first read your post.
Correct me if I am wrong, but I think you have been working on the assumption (or the hope) that there is a REASON for your H's low libido, and that once that was unravelled...lo and behold, he would be HD. I think you have made SOME progress in that direction, but clearly not enough.
In your situation, your H complicated things because until recently, he never actually said that he was just LD by nature, and kept pointing to you and various other reasons for his LD behavior.
I'm not sure what to tell you. Maybe more info from you would be good because we can then help you.
