Your posts give me so much encouragement! My H is having an A with a co-worker. He is having trouble ending their R. I think he became much more emotionally attached than he thought he would. He is still seeing her 2 to 3 times a week, usually overnight. I am trying to be the best DBer I can but it really hurts down deep to know he is there with her. How do you handle it? He tells me he loves me all the time. I just wish I could really belive him. There are still so many secrets. And boy those secrets can be hurtful! Good luck to you - I think you are doing a great job and let us know if you have any successes!
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God grant me the serenity,
to accept the things I cannot change,
To change the things I can,
And the wisdom to know the difference.
- Reinhold Niebuhr
My H is having an A with a co-worker. He is having trouble ending their R. I think he became much more emotionally attached than he thought he would. He is still seeing her 2 to 3 times a week, usually overnight. I am trying to be the best DBer I can but it really hurts down deep to know he is there with her. How do you handle it? He tells me he loves me all the time. I just wish I could really belive him. There are still so many secrets. And boy those secrets can be hurtful! Good luck to you - I think you are doing a great job and let us know if you have any successes!
