thanks for the encourgement. I haven't been posting as often cause there hasn't been any major developments. H continues to take baby steps but nothing decisive.
This is what happened over the last couple of weeks or so.
He stayed home on Friday night and the 2 of us went for dinner and then watched a movie. We got home around 2am and he caught me trying to read his phone. He got angry and went to the other room to watch tv. It was so quiet in the house that I heard him talking on the phone. He was talking to OW and he was calling her a liar. He said that he doesn't want to see her anymore, and that he wants his watch back. I couldn't hear too much more cause it was muffled.
On Saturday night, I checked his text messages and he got one from her that said:
"baby don't be mad, I am sorry I lied to you. Please come see me later."
He did end up going out with her late on Saturday. On Sunday, the 2 of us took our son and other nephews out and then we watched a movie.
I had to work on Monday, afterwork he picked me up and we went to my parents for thanksgiving, it was fun.
Wednesday he usually goes out with OW, but he told me that he wasn't going out cause he was tired. I checked his phone and he got a text from OW in the morning saying she was 'going home now'. So I think she went home sick from work and wasn't feeling well to go out with him that night.
Poor baby.
Then Thursday was my birthday and after work we went to red lobster for dinner with everyone. It was nice.
Then he asked me if I wanted to go out with him, I said yes and we went to our usual. There was NO relationship talk and we didn't fight about anything. We flirted a bit and laughed a lot. Then he told me that he was supposed to go out that night (with ow of course), but decided to go with me instead cause it was my birthday. So he must have cancelled on her....Oh, poor baby.... I checked his phone and she called and left him 2 messages while we were out.... He called her back and talked to her for 1 minute.....Maybe she was still sick, I don't know.
On friday night, he said he was going out. I told him there was a midnight madness sale I was going to so I left before him. I got home and he was gone. I started working on my project, I was taking a break and H showed up at home. I didn't ask him ANYTHING about why he showed up at home. He asked me if I wanted to go out with him. We went to a different bar and there was no R talk again. We had a good time.
He told me that he was at a friends place earlier, and then he was going to go out (with ow) BUT changed his mind cause he didn't want me to be sad since my birthday was the day before. I said thank you to him for hanging out with me. Personally, I think that either he got in another fight with OW, she is still sick, OR she had other plans. He hasn't gone out with her at all the past week. Regardless, I know that he doesn't want to let me know about their R because it gives me 'HOPE' as he says, so lately
he just tells me that he wanted to spend time with me or he is tired etc... I am fine with this, but I really wish I knew what was going on....
On Saturday night he went out with OW, but I know he went with his other friends first, which means he didn't spend too much time with OW.
On Sunday he was very flirty with me, we had a long make-out session (something we haven't done in a long time). It was great. In our conversations we talk about doing things in the future as if we are still going to be together. Previously, he would always throw in a comment about us not being married anyways etc... Now he only does that once and awhile.
Well thanks for reading, it helps me to write things down.
